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Monday, November 6, 2017

Are You A Team Player Or Are You All For Yourself?

Are You A Team Player Or Are You All For Yourself?


I have been on social media for about five years now and I have seen it all.  Friendships created online some who are genuine and some who are full of BS.

We work very hard in this field to build ourselves and our business to a certain standard because there will always be new rules and methods to contend with.

 Most of the time we are working hard and there isn't no financial reward in sight but we still share and work our craft to the best of our knowledge. A big part of social media is sharing and promoting and it is time-consuming.

What I am seeing so much of that I am totally angry about is a number of people looking for you to be their provider and savior and what I mean is people who are looking for you to give them all the answers or promote them but they are totally waiting around not trying to do anything for themselves bottom-feeding off you and your skills.

I don't mind helping anyone but I actually have helped people but when they got on their feet and they were in the position to help me, they couldn't be found at all.

They leeched their way into my life to see what I was doing and get me to help them but now they act like I am dead.

 On the other hand, I have some really good friends and associates where we exchange ideas and I appreciate the positivity and loyalty these people have shown me.

Finally, I found my happy place in a FaceBook group for bloggers and have found that the ladies involved are so genuine and willing to help.

When someone befriends you online make sure that you check out their website or blog and see who this person is and what their mode of Operandi is because I have seen some real criminals at work online and people running a con-game are in abundance.

I am going to show you some examples below.

  • People are interested in your services or expertise and they message you to get you to give them the service for free.
  • If you become friends with someone online and they try to make you feel guilty for not giving them gifts or money.
  • Sometimes they try to get you to promote their site or products and say that they will give you money if the product sells and it sells and they give you nothing.
  • These people research you online to see how much money you make and how much you are worth and they come out of the blue to make friends and then they give you a hard-luck story.
  • Get you to order something from their website so they can steal your credit card information.
  • Ask you to set up Gofundme in your name and give them the money.
  • Use their children to use you for a bank ( calling you their online godmother) silly but true.
  • Borrow money from you saying that they are about to be homeless and they are living better than you are and never pay you back and disappear.
  • They are using a lot of aliases online is definitely a no-no.
  • You see online where they have committed fraud.


There are many other examples, but please be careful and follow your intuition regarding this.
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